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I hate myself. Why do I have to make an ass of myself and say stupid things that I either blurt out and instantly regret, or warn myself not to say it but say anyways? Do I want attention, or am I trying to act like a dumbass so no one ever expects anything out of me? It's gotten to the point where I am not proud of any of my achievements, nor does anyone else give a shit about them. It's what I tried to cultivate way back when I started acting this way, but now it's just gone too far and I can't even act like myself anymore. It's like being a fucking idiot that no one can take seriously has actually become my personality, and that IS me being myself, and frankly the thought scares the shit out of me. I need to find the happy medium between heartless slut bitch and dumb-shit Barbie whore. I want to maintain a sense of humor, but I don't want everything I say to be a big joke. I want to be able to cry, but I don't want to be sensitive to everything. Today I was at work, and I was running on absolute autopilot. I felt like I couldn't control anything I was saying or doing. The whole time, in the back of my mind, I was horrified, but it all snowballed and I couldn't stop. I really like one of my coworkers but I'm sure by now, like everyone, he thinks I'm just a vapid ditz. And it happens all the time. It's like being drunk against my will, and when I shake out of it the self-loathing comes from that corner in the back of my mind and completely consumes me. Why am I so fucking STUPID? I've been reading the Gossip Girl novels, and I stopped today and realized that I'm acting exactly like the brainless, flighty debutantes that make up the starring cast. And the whole point of the series is to point out the respective ridiculousness of each person. I hardly even know who I really am on the inside. All that's there is a fuckload of self-hatred, completely painted over by this stupid fucking mask. I'm really tired of people just brushing me off, and it's started to hurt every time someone calls me an idiot, or laughs when I do something moronic. And you know when that happens that it's actually true, and that it is something you need to change about yourself, be it your perception of the people pointing the fingers, or the thing itself. In this case, I don't even need to think twice about what needs to be changed. I'm completely terrified of being serious because I'm so used to acting in a manner where it doesn't matter how people react; the reaction, if negative, can be brushed off because I was just being stupid, or if it's positive, it's irrelevant.
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*Requests: Closed
~Trades/Collabs: Open
Commissions: If you want.
To do:
~lunatic-13 - lineart done, awaiting response
~dracontiar - awaiting request
~triggerman - concept
~nevhy - pending scan
~dashcat - concept
~hydraness - concept
*Original Shimmer - concept
-"Quoth the raven, 'Nevermore!', then quoth the raven nevermore..." - Pencil done
-Wyvern - To be posted in scraps.
-So Far Away - Pending scan/photo
-Swimming Harak-'Na - Pencil done
-Mushroom Cloud - Concept
-CrissCross rear/DooM - Concept
-Don't Jump - Finishing touches
-Alien Nation - Sketching
-Even in Death - Sketching
-Sikryx - Inking
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